For some people, a dream destination pops easily into mind: they know precisely where they would go in a heartbeat if there were no obstacles.
For others, it’s a bit more ambiguous. For example, you might have an idea about what you’d like. Still, you might not be entirely sure where you’d have your passport stamped if the opportunity came up tomorrow.
We all know that the best way to make something happen is to start intentionally giving it shape — something to look at, imagine, talk about, and (most importantly!) plan for. So with that in mind, here are a few questions to ask yourself so you can get started working out the details of that trip you fantasize about during those hectic workweeks.
1. What’s your “happy place” when you have bad days? Again, for some, this might be a specific place — Tahiti, the Alps, or Paris. But more than that — what’s the feeling you go to when you’re stressed out or stuck in traffic? Do you imagine the lazy perfection of pristine beaches? The thrill of craggy mountains? The rush and sensory feast of busy marketplaces? The smells of spicy foods?
Make a quick list: 10 things that come to mind on the most fun, free, relaxed, no-obligations, open day you can imagine.
2. What do you crave? Think of what you say you wish you had more of — free time, adventure, romance, time to learn a new skill, sunshine, purpose. What are you truly, deep down, just plain hungry for? What do you long for? When you imagine being your best self — what are you doing? And who is with you? Jot down 10 things you are longing for in your life right now.
3. What season suits you best? Do you love to soak in the sweltering heat in your swimsuit? Or the crisp crunch of autumn leaves underfoot? Or the intense blue quiet of a mountain snowfall? When do you feel most at home in your body and most in love with your environment?
Of course, your perfect vacation doesn’t have to be the most popular! It’s your ideal vacation, remember?
4. What’s one crazy luxurious thing you secretly wish for? For some people, it’s as simple as a pile of books and no emails to answer for three weeks. For others, it’s endless room service, all-day spa treatments, king-size feather beds, and huge whirlpool tubs.
No matter how big or small — go ahead. Write down five luxuries that would make you feel like you’d won the lottery if someone handed them to you right now.
5. When you scroll through social media and magazines, which images grab you the most? What colors draw your eye? Spicy and exotic? Cool and laid back? Misty and mysterious? Scroll through your social media feeds, or go to a bookstore, pick up four or five travel magazines — and just notice which images you keep returning to, which makes your heart skip a little.
You might be surprised. Some people assume that their “dream” trip is in an all-inclusive resort somewhere. But if you keep coming back to the pictures of a bike tour through Tuscany — well, that’s worth paying attention to. That experience might feed something in you that an all-you-can-eat buffet might not even begin to touch.
So save or cut out the images that speak to you the most and look for common themes, even (and especially) in images that seem to be opposites.
When you’ve had time to assemble your thoughts — and if you’re working on this with your partner, friends, or family members — look for overlaps, recurring themes, and those quiet nudges you can’t seem to shake. Listen to your gut. And start to dream big.
You can set a goal, start saving if you need to and start giving shape to your plan. Put your images and any accompanying words or phrases on Pinterest, a computer file, or some other vision board — anyplace where you’ll see it multiple times a day — and let those images inspire you as you get closer and closer to making your bucket list trip a reality.
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